Sunday, March 20, 2011
Bridal Survival Tip #4 - Allow Yourself Some Flexibility
It’s your wedding…I get that. You’ve always dreamed of this day…I get that. You want the wedding party to wear plaid (okay, maybe I’m pushing it), but the point I’m trying to make is that just because it’s your wedding it doesn’t give you cart blanch to be inflexible, stubborn and unrealistic about what you want. Here are a few of the disadvantages of having this type of attitude towards the planning of your wedding.
It creates undue stress & tension on an already emotional experience.
It shows insensitivity towards the feelings of others.
It takes the pleasure out of planning – for you and for those around you.
To avoid experiencing these negative feelings, my advice is to be flexible with some of your desires. I promise this will keep you from snapping under the pressure of planning.